Paris Hilton Wants to Have Children by Next Year
Well, it looks like that Paris/Benji news I posted the other day has caused conflicts between fans again. I just want to confirm that what Paris said about having a baby by next year is indeed correct.
She told In Touch magazine exactly this quote: “I’d love to have children by next year.” You can check it out for yourself. In the article, it is said that Benji Madden is also ready to start a family with Paris. “I know in my heart of hearts I would be a great mother,” says Paris.
I’m still scratching my head over this one. Too soon to talk about starting a family? I guess we’ll have to wait and see how this will unfold.
Posted: May 22nd, 2008
Time: May 22, 2008, 6:11 pm
No! I’m already depressed enough right now.
Time: May 22, 2008, 7:38 pm
I don’t believe it’s too soon. Paris has been talking about and wanting to have kids for YEARS now. Sometimes you can just tell when you’re with the ‘right’ person. If she (and Benji) feel like it’s right then I say more power to ’em. I think they’d both make excellent parents one day. Only she (and Benji) can tell whether it’s the right or not.
Time: May 22, 2008, 7:41 pm
Hmm…I went to the In Touch link you provided and I didn’t see anything about Paris. Am I missing it? Just wondering. Or is it in the actual In Touch magazine?
Time: May 22, 2008, 8:28 pm
Its in the magazine, but I still say its too soon and we don’t know if this what benji wants because its Paris doing all the talking.
Time: May 22, 2008, 8:33 pm
if this is true, it might be time for her parents to step in and correct her.
Time: May 22, 2008, 8:47 pm
Why should her ‘rents step in? She’s a grown adult and it’s frankly none of their business. The only people who have any right to have a say in the matter are her and Benji. Everyone else in the world? They’re entitled to an opinion but all that matters is what the two of them think and decide. Paris is more than old enough to have a family. It’s not like she’s 16 or something.
Time: May 22, 2008, 9:04 pm
Yeah, it’s in the actual magazine. My concern is that they’ve been dating for only three months. That’s the thing, but Benji does seem like a nice guy.
Time: May 22, 2008, 9:21 pm
Thanks Enkil 🙂
It may seem a bit ‘soon’ for that type of talk to some people but like I said sometimes you just KNOW when it’s ‘right’. But who knows? I guess we shall see what the future holds. I do believe in my heart of hearts that when the day comes Paris will make an excellent mother.
Time: May 22, 2008, 10:03 pm
how does Paris know if they will be a couple next year?
Time: May 22, 2008, 10:05 pm
Well, it certainly got her fans talking. I’m sure the haters are all talking too, saying she’d be a horrible mother etc. I’m sure she’d try hard to be a good mom.
Paris said the same thing last summer, about wanting kids sometime the following year, and she wasn’t even dating anyone seriously then.
Whatever she wants to do, whatever makes her happy, is fine with me.
The one thing that I want her to do, the one thing she has never done, is to do a concert club tour. I think it would be a smash. It was a dream some of us had, that she once had, that looks more & more like it’s going to stay that way – a dream.
Time: May 22, 2008, 10:26 pm
Really, I hope it doesn’t get that serious. It’s fucking tearing me up inside, honestly. If she got pregnant, my dreams would shatter. If she married that guy, it would hurt even more, especially if she and/or her hypothetical child took HIS last name.
Time: May 22, 2008, 11:02 pm
They seem happy and the way they talk about each other is beyond adorable. I know yeah you could go, “Well how can she know they’ll still be together” or whatever. But it’s like you can take a couple who’s been married for 10+ years, who’s to say they’ll stay married the following year? You can’t spend your life worrying about everything or walking on eggshells. You can only live in the moment and she seems to be the happiest and most at peace that she’s been in a long time, if ever. And that’s ALL that should matter. Paris is an adult and I’m sure she’ll know when the time is right and when she’s ready to have a child.
I do have a minor vent though. This is in general NOT directed towards anyone but I’m tired of people acting like, “OMG she shouldn’t be allowed to have kids” or whatever. As far as I know she’s not some child abuser, hasn’t ever neglected a child, etc. She has as much right as anyone else to have a family. Yes she’s had her fun, made some mistakes and certainly done things that I’m sure she’s less than proud of. But does that mean she’ll be a horrible mom or shouldn’t be allowed to have kids? No! And that’s absurd. It just makes her human. We all make mistakes, then we grow, learn and mature from them. I’ve mainly seen those kinda comments on like these sites making fun of Paris and it drives me crazy.
Time: May 23, 2008, 12:19 am
I agree with Sabrinia. My best wishes to Paris and kudos to Benji for making her so happy.
Time: May 23, 2008, 8:23 am
Benji put Paris’s pics from her MTV show on the Good Charlotte site. She looks very beautiful.
He says several of the GC family came to lend support.
I also agree that a 27 year old woman and a 29 year old man have every right to plan for their future and think about children.
GC is a very successful band and no doubt Benji can support a wife and a couple of kids when the time comes.
Apparently Rick and Kathy Hilton are delighted with Benji. gossipgirls.com
has a little video about the parents giving their approval.
Benji gives the impression of being a very dependable person and if they love each other,so be it. Let’s wish them happiness.
Time: May 23, 2008, 9:19 pm
no one is saying paris and benji can’t have kids if they want to, (some day) so that’s not the point. the point is maturity; and the inidicator we have of that is how over-the-top publically she is making their relationship. which is of course a glaring sign of immaturity!!
Mature adults do NOT go about making such a public point of “selling” their relationship, especially when it’s only a few months old. She is clearly not handling this well, which is exactly why her parents should step in. They know her best and can help her with this.
i’m as big a fan as anyone for paris, but that doesn’t mean I have to agree with everything she does. In this case, she is simply NOT behaving like a mature 27 year old; she’s behaving childish and it comes across as silly or fake or both. She’s selling it. hard. and it shows. and in the process she is publically setting up an expectation that is way too early to be setting for anyone, including herself, ie that they’ll be”together forever”.
David Letterman even called her out on this and tried to talk some sense into her. He actually does care for her and tried to help.
Paris needs to understand that actions speak louder than words. if her relationship lasts for at least several years, then that is all that needs to be seen publically to prove it’s real. She is trying to leap-frog past this stage be gabbing away to convince people how real it is, which again, only makes her look silly. A variation of Shakespeare’s “thou dost protest too much”. Copious words can’t replace actions or longevity in winning an argument of proof. Verbosity equals fraud.
She’s so anxious to show everyone “the real me (paris)”, that’s she’s been saying just about anything the past year since she left jail, and it has always come back to haunt her. How about just chilling and letting things unfold naturally without trying to force the issue all the time? That is the wise, mature way to handle this.
ITMT, Paris, please just learn this life principle; Mature people keep their relationships private. Period. (if you need help, ask your sister, she seems to get this.)
Time: May 23, 2008, 9:39 pm
Paris hasn’t done any over the top publicity when it comes to her relationship. It’s not like she’s selling covers to PEOPLE magazine for something. But of course if she’s at an event or a party since they’re both famous she’s going to get asked questions. That happens with ALL celebrity couples. It’s not like she’s making them ask the questions. I don’t see a single thing wrong with answering questions. She’s happy and in love and wants to express it. I don’t see a single immature thing about that. It’s like how Benji said on YO! on E! “You just want to get up on a mountain and go ‘I’m in love!!!!!'” And I’d lose all respect for her parents if they “stepped” in. She’s NOT a child. She’s a grown adult. They’d be butting their nose in where it has no business to be.
I don’t see where she’s acted immature or anything like that.
Time: May 23, 2008, 10:08 pm
I agree that she’s acting a little immature. She’s acting overly-gitty about this guy and it’s terrorizing me somewhat. It’s not just Paris though. Benji keeps spewing about her being “wife material,” something that makes me think he’s chauvinistic atleast a little bit.
Time: May 24, 2008, 1:07 am
You’re right Sabrinia. The fact is: when you’re happy then you’re happy to talk about being happy. Why should Paris or anyone keep a relationship private – not like any of them are cheating on anyone or having a relationship with someone under the legal age.
This idea of “immaturity” is something I don’t get. Far older people than Paris or Benji can show their affection for a partner or talk about how happy they are in a relationship (even long married couples can do it). It’s nothing to do with age or maturity at all. Paris’s parents have commented favourably about Benji and have themselves hinted that they see this relationship going all the way. If Paris was a drug addict, alcoholic or getting conned out of her fortune by a obvious grifter, that’s when the parents or other people would want to step in – not for a happy relationship! Letterman was actually quite rude. How would you feel if he was mocking your relationship or boyfriend for cheap laughs (or accusing your harmless pet clothes that noone is forced to buy of being the reason people hate America)? If that’s maturity and being happy in love isn’t, then I know what I prefer. There are more than one type of personality or approach to life in the world. People are so quick to slam and judge anything that’s different to their own outlook.
Time: May 24, 2008, 1:59 am
Oh. My. God!
I find it amazing that anyone could not see how how immature her behavior has been. She’s not just answering questions, she’s activley putting it out there even when nobody asks her. Big difference!
As for people “far older” acting silly. Ah, no, not so much. Only one – Tom Cruise – jumping on oprah’s couch. And just look what that bizarre behavior did to his career. Even the biggest star can not get away with such antics. his box-office cache has been in a free fall ever since. and paris is no tom cruise.
and the idea that benji is anywhere near as wealthy as the hilton family and therefore it’s impossible that he’s in this for cash and publicity, again, ah no. his wealth is nothing compared to theirs. benji is being attributed with this saint-like quality that he really hasn’t earned.
and her family most certainly should step in to advise her. what she does reflects on them. you can’t very well put them through last year’s jail fiasco (yes, I agree it wasn’t her fault, etc), expect their unconditional support and then tell them it’s none of their business less than a year later when you’re behaving foolishly in public over a guy you’ve only been dating a few months . gimme a break on that one!
But, i think we can all just agree to disagree on this and wait and see how it all turns out.
As for relationships and Paris…You know how you’ll know when its real? when she keeps it private and doesn’t want the media in her personal business. When that day comes, then you’ll know Paris has matured enough and she understands how to honor someone else and how to take care of a relationship.
Time: May 24, 2008, 4:34 am
Oh. My. Goddess.
Yes, we can all agree to disagree w/anyone telling Paris whom to love or not to love, and how or how not to love, and how or how not to live her life out loud, when that is both her financial and personal business.
Paris is on probation w/the law until March 2009. She’s being careful about her driving. That is fact, and the fact that matters most at this point.
Paris is being careful, she is staying out jail, so she is free to do otherwise as she pleases. Paris is being very mature in my opinion. Not that my opinion matters.
Time: May 24, 2008, 4:48 am
We certainly will have to agree to disagree. I’m fed up with the constant arguing that goes on here even between fans. But when Paris is constantly being criticised and insulted as being “immature” just for being happy in her life and the type of bubbly person who talks about it, then I’m done reading comments. I’ll comment on occassion to show my support of Paris, but I won’t be reading comments and I’ll leave the arguing to those who enjoy it (besides, as someone who comes from a lower financial background and who doesn’t regard bisexuals (or homosexuals) as “freak”s (as one person called Angelina Jolie) I often find the posting here way too judgemental.
Tom Cruise is a Scientologist nutjob who has increasingly being forcing his controversial religious views onto others and that’s what is ruining his popularity and credibility. Paris in a seemingly happy relationship is almost as far from being the same thing as you can get.
I never said that older people “act silly”. I don’t consider being happy to talk about your feelings for someone or your relationship as “silly” or “immature” and I’ve known older people who are happy to talk about such things.
Paris is also often criticised here (by more than one person I’m sure) as being no “this celebrity” or “that celebrity”. Well, we can choose for ourselves who to admire or whose career to support. I’m not usually interested in these other supposedly superior or more successful celebrities, so Paris has a appeal that they don’t in my eyes and she’s the one I’m interested in reading about, supporting and visiting a fansite for.
I don’t think anyone is attributing a “saintlike quality” (not being religiously indoctrinated I’m not inclined to believe in the notion of saints) to Benji at all. Allowing for the fact that someone might actually be a decent guy or might not automatically be a moneygrabber is hardly sainthood. It just seems to be a problem with some that not all of us are so quick to judge, dismiss or name call. And I’d be far more suspicious of a supposed relationship where neither participant is willing to discuss or show enthusiasm over it. I’m not looking for people to be “Invasion Of The Body Snatchers”.
Anyway, that’s it. I’m done with the argument and the general judgemental attitudes of some regulars. Enjoy your topic forum. Peace.
Time: May 25, 2008, 12:25 am
“…I often find the posting here way too judgemental. Tom Cruise is a Scientologist nutjob…”
I think we all have our moments. No need to argue.
Suffice to say, that if paris and benji are still together in 3 years from this date, i will buy you dinner in L.A.?
Time: May 25, 2008, 1:01 pm
I hope this doesn’t mean they’re doing it, yet. Thank god they haven’t made out at nightclubs or anything, because it would really just infect me with vile mental images. I mean, he’s not exactly the greatest looking guy on earth.
I just KNOW that if that happens, some of these girls who are all giddy about how cute they are together (Dawn for example) will just cause me more anguish.
I just hope that, if they do break up, it doesn’t hurt her too much or anything. It would hurt me to see or hear about her crying. I don’t fucking know, I’m just an insane fucking bastard who needs a lobotomy.